I’m a single mom of a very energetic 8 year old boy. His dad and I split when our son was three years old so I’ve been doing the single mom thing for five years now. Looking back I can now see what I needed the most was to know that I wasn’t alone. Even though I felt like it, I wasn’t. My Higher Power, God, Universe was with me and had my back the whole time. Some days because of my crippling anxiety and depression, all I could do was say “God, please help me.” He totally did and still does daily. When I get out of my head and surrender and be open to possibilities, things happen that I could never have imagined. When my connection to the Divine is strong, I can believe in myself. I know God doesn’t make accidents and we are all here to serve a purpose. It was hard for me to believe in myself when I felt alone and not worth anything. Even though I was super shy, I joined groups that were positive, uplifting and welcoming. I surrounded myself with people that saw the good in me when I couldn’t see it myself. I started reaching out so i wouldn’t feel so alone. I would go to zumba class regularly. I joined a hula halau to connect me more to my roots and found some amazing .And I found a community online that was all about women empowerment and health. I started taking care of myself little by little and giving myself grace and created my own family and support system. I started dreaming again and investing in myself and my business. Now my tribe has grown even more and working with heart centered people in the growth mindset and abundance energy is so much more fulfilling and I am so very grateful for it all. Now I have the honor to help moms going through something similar. Our story is never the same, but may have some similarities and I believe that I went through my experience to help others not feel alone, give some help, cheer you on and encourage you to connect with your spiritual side.
There are so many awesome charities out there that are very worthy of our support. I suggest you research and find charities that resonate with you and donate time and or money when possible.
La Casa De La Madres is a charity in San Francisco that inspires me. In English, translated to the house of the mothers, this organization provides women and families dealing with domestic violence with resources such as shelter and support. They have a 24/7 hotline available to call or text if needed.
Funds donated to this organization goes towards food, employees salaries and also additional programs and resources like workshops and other must haves. There is a lovely play room and outdoor area for kids that could use some updating.
The residential housing provided is a safe and secure place for families to come to get their life together. The residents have weekly chores and responsibilities to help the house run smoothly. This helps the moms feel like they have a sense or purpose and can contribute to the household.
The mental health support is crucial and at times the counselors are so overbooked that they don’t get to help as many families as closely as they would like. Many of the women that come here have fled bad situations and need to feel safe and feel like they are important and valued. Many times they come from toxic relationships that are controlling and very manipulating. La Casa has counselors for both moms and their kids too.
This organization has been around since the 70s and has been extremely helpful to the community by helping these moms get back on their feet. They assist with looking for permanent housing and employment and help with getting on general assistance and food stamps. They also can connect families with legal aid to ask questions for the next steps.
For my birthday this year, I was honored to raise funds to support this organization. Here’s a link to donate if you feel so moved: https://www.lacasa.org/donate
I know each dollar will be used to help the families in the community that are hurting and so desperately need it.
