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What Single Moms Need to Survive

What Single Moms Need to Survive

I’m a single mom of a very energetic 8 year old boy.  His dad and I split when our son was three years old so I’ve been doing the single mom thing for five years now. Looking back I can now see what I needed the most was to know that I wasn’t alone. Even though I felt like it, I wasn’t. My Higher Power, God, Universe was with me and had my back the whole time.  Some days because of my crippling anxiety and depression, all I could do was say “God, please help me.”  He totally did and still does daily. When I get out of my head and surrender and be open to possibilities, things happen that I could never have imagined. When my connection to the Divine is strong, I can believe in myself.  I know God doesn’t make accidents and we are all here to serve a purpose.  It was hard for me to believe in myself when I felt alone and not worth anything. Even though I was super shy, I joined groups that were positive, uplifting and welcoming. I surrounded myself with people that saw the good in me when I couldn’t see it myself. I started reaching out so i wouldn’t feel so alone. I would go to zumba class regularly. I joined a hula halau to connect me more to my roots and found some amazing .And I found a community online that was all about women empowerment and health.  I started taking care of myself little by little and giving myself grace and created my own family and support system.  I started dreaming again and investing in myself and my business.  Now my tribe has grown even more and working with heart centered people in the growth mindset and abundance energy is so much more fulfilling and I am so very grateful for it all. Now I have the honor to help moms going through something similar.  Our story is never the same, but may have some similarities and I believe that I went through my experience to help others not feel alone, give some help, cheer you on and encourage you to connect with your spiritual side. 



My Story

 

Ever since I was a young child, I was always very moody.  Considered ultra sensitive, my anxiety was always through the roof.  As a young adult I got therapy and took prescription drugs which I thought would help.  I even had an as needed anxiety medication I had a panic attack.to keep on me just in case. I just wanted to feel like myself again.I tried different medication and therapists, hypnotherapy, whatever I could find.  When I found out I was pregnant with my son, I decided to stop all medications, even down to over the counter to protect my baby. I liked not taking a bunch of pills daily but I didn’t feel like I was getting any better.  Everyday I put on a face so everyone around me would believe everything was okay when I knew I clearly wasn’t. 


I always clung to a Higher Power for protection and guidance and my faith carried me through many years of uncertainty and very high stress. I was unhappy in my relationships, my job, and more. I felt like my whole life needed a makeover but I had no idea where to even start. One day this lady came into the store where I worked and she shared a new way of thinking.


Now I’m so much happier and feel a million times better overall. My faith in the Universe/Higher Power/God/Spirit grows more and more each day.I am working on my health and wellness and my life has changed drastically. I gained confidence in myself to leave bad relationships, left a job and found a better one (or two).  Most of all I see my dream life vision coming together slowly, yet surely. I’m so excited to help others do the same.I have an amazing support group of awesome women all working together to achieve our dreams. I see that the power of positivity and love is contagious and I’m happy I can share that with the world.  Of course I still have ups and downs but now I have tools to help myself and others that can relate.


Come join our group of amazing ladies all working together to build our dreams in a loving and high vibe atmosphere. 

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